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People need what helps them in their lives and relieve them of their worries, and they wish to find someone who reassures them, supports them, and provides them with help and support.
It is free of charge, and whoever offers these things to others will win their hearts and be the subject of their trust and appreciation. Whoever guides people with kindness and softness of character gives them reassurance.
Kindness is a great character that introduces friendliness and tolerance in the hearts and makes companions people of love and trust among people, so kindness becomes a door to heaven and creation for true believers. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah’s prayers and peace be upon him, says:

(Allah is kind and loves kindness, and He gives for kindness what He does not give for violence and what He does not give to anyone else) Sahih Muslim

, and in another narration:

(Allah is kind and loves kindness in all matters) Sahih Ibn Majah.

A Muslim is gentle and good in his speech to everyone he talks to

He does not deal harshly or speak ill and does not allow himself to hurt the feelings of others, even if he advises them or calls them for good.
People’s souls will not accept him as long as he is harsh and harsh in his speech. The Almighty says:

(And if you were harsh and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you) Surah Al Imran, verse 159.

Even when a person is in the most intense state of anger, our Noble Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, instructed us to suppress anger and not get angry. A man said to the Prophet, may Allah’s prayers and peace be upon him: Advise me, he said:

(Do not get angry) and he repeated repeatedly (Do not get angry) Sahih Al-Bukhari.

And in another narration

(Do not get angry, and Paradise will be yours) is true of the whole.

Anger is the root of evil in the soul of man, and it makes a person
He does not see things as they really are and cannot control himself, so his nerves loosen and he humiliates his tongue with what he regrets later.

As for the people of merit, whom Allah bestows kindness upon, their natures are calm, self-controlled, and they hold the reins of their patience.
They will be able to suppress their anger and forgive others
to be of the benefactors; People of Allah’s love and contentment,
And that is not easy except for those whom Allah has made easy for him and guided him to.
The Almighty says:

(And those who suppress anger and forgive people, and Allah loves the doers of good) Surah Al Imran, verse 134.

We find many verses and hadiths that command us to be gentle and guide us to it and to be kind to people; their benefactors and their evildoers, and to pardon people.

Why do we find this great concern for kindness and benevolence in our Sharia?
And in the year of our noble Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace.
Because kindness simply opens closed hearts and softens hard hearts
It opens in the soul the energies of light, making it capable of receiving good
Realizing the light of faith, even the most ruthless and cruel people cannot
To respond to kindness with evil, even if they wanted to, their position would be shameful.
The gentleness of a person and his soft nature may be a reason for the guidance of another, his love for obedience and his commitment to the morals of Islam. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, says:

(Forbidden to the Fire is every easy thing, easy and close to people) Sahih al-Jami.

On the other hand, if a person wanted to advise people on what is in their best interest,
But with harshness and severity, they will flee from him, block him, and close their hearts before their ears.

Likewise, kindness and tolerance in buying and selling, Allah made it a door to Allah’s satisfaction and obedience to Him. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah’s prayers and peace be upon him, says:

(May Allah have mercy on a tolerant man if he sells, buys, and requires) Sahih al-Bukhari.

Those whom Allah honours with precious dignity by suppressing anger and restraining anger – no matter how right they are and no matter how much others have hurt them – are the people of high determination who raise their ranks through their patience and mercy, even the abuser.
And if people think that they are weak because of their gentleness and generosity of manners, then they are patient with what people think, seeking what is with Allah, so Allah will be pleased with them and people will be pleased with them.

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